{"id":6449,"date":"2025-10-12T07:48:21","date_gmt":"2025-10-12T05:48:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/?p=6449"},"modified":"2025-10-12T07:54:33","modified_gmt":"2025-10-12T05:54:33","slug":"a-woman-can-lift-you-or-break-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/a-woman-can-lift-you-or-break-you","title":{"rendered":"A woman can lift you or break you."},"content":{"rendered":"\n


A woman\u2026
The bold one.\u00a0
And the silent one.\u00a0
The laughing one.\u00a0
And the angry one.\u00a0
The one full of constant complaints.\u00a0
Of discontent.\u00a0
Of tear-streaked cheeks.\u00a0

Closed off.\u00a0
Misunderstood.\u00a0
Fighting.\u00a0
Wounded.\u00a0

She gives you nothing.\u00a0
She\u2019ll make you breakfast, lunch, and dinner.\u00a0
Hug your children.\u00a0
Clean your house.\u00a0
Do the shopping.\u00a0
Go to the bank.\u00a0

But she\u2019ll give you nothing more\u00a0
when she feels\u00a0
Unseen\u00a0
Unheard\u00a0
Unneeded for anything beyond the routine.\u00a0

Routine is great for brushing your teeth.\u00a0
Routine is great for feeling safe.\u00a0
Routine is great for staying organized. |

But in love, routine is the daily watering\u00a0
of Her – your woman.\u00a0
Watering her with words\u00a0
that help her feel good.\u00a0
It\u2019s a warm tone of your voice\u00a0
that says Good morning,\u00a0
So nice to see you – today too.\u00a0
A gesture of handing her a coffee.\u00a0
A plate taken from the table.\u00a0
A kiss on the neck instead of a squeeze on the butt.\u00a0
You can squeeze but only after three kisses first \ud83d\ude09\u00a0
You could receive so many beautiful things\u2026\u00a0
But first, you have to water her.\u00a0

With what?\u00a0
With your attention.\u00a0
Time for talk.\u00a0
Doing something together.\u00a0
You can play.\u00a0
Laugh at silly things.\u00a0
There\u2019s got to be something.\u00a0
There definitely was something\u2026\u00a0
That slipped away in the everyday.\u00a0
In the routine.\u00a0
In the tiredness.\u00a0

You get frustrated.\u00a0
And your flower begins to wilt.\u00a0
Water her today with a new breath.\u00a0
A hug on the stairs.\u00a0
Opening the door to your home.\u00a0
A flower – even just one.\u00a0

Wrap her in your care.\u00a0
In your strength.\u00a0
And she\u2019ll give you her beauty.\u00a0
And her softness.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"A woman\u2026The bold one.\u00a0And the silent one.\u00a0The laughing one.\u00a0And the angry one.\u00a0The one full of constant complaints.\u00a0Of discontent.\u00a0Of…\n","protected":false},"author":244696633,"featured_media":6440,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_crdt_document":"","advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"csco_display_header_overlay":false,"csco_disable_site_padding":false,"csco_singular_sidebar":"","csco_page_header_type":"","csco_page_load_nextpost":"","csco_post_video_location":[],"csco_post_video_location_hash":"","csco_post_video_url":"","csco_post_video_bg_start_time":0,"csco_post_video_bg_end_time":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1556,1584,1426],"tags":[1900,1596,1574,1573,1898,1893,1856,1899,1901],"class_list":{"0":"post-6449","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-partnership","8":"category-relation","9":"category-rozwoj-en","10":"tag-he-is-for-you","11":"tag-new-family-quality","12":"tag-self-awareness","13":"tag-self-development","14":"tag-she-is-for-you","15":"tag-together-is-better","16":"tag-together-we-build-our-world","17":"tag-you-are-for-her","18":"tag-you-are-for-him","19":"cs-entry","20":"cs-video-wrap"},"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/sandrasinger.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/9748B732-3557-4A48-95F3-CD345EC59F6A_1_105_c.jpeg?fit=1024%2C768&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pfugTc-1G1","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6449","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/244696633"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6449"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6449\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6453,"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6449\/revisions\/6453"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6440"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6449"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6449"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6449"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}