{"id":6978,"date":"2026-02-01T13:55:10","date_gmt":"2026-02-01T12:55:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/?p=6978"},"modified":"2026-02-01T13:55:34","modified_gmt":"2026-02-01T12:55:34","slug":"why-should-i-see-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/why-should-i-see-it","title":{"rendered":"Why Should I See It?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

To see something means\u00a0
you CAN do something about it.\u00a0
You don\u2019t have to.\u00a0
But seeing it at all\u00a0
gives you the chance to choose.\u00a0
To see is a higher level of Being.\u00a0
Because it hurts.\u00a0
You see\u00a0\u00a0
And someone else\u2026 doesn\u2019t.\u00a0
And there\u2019s nothing you can do about it.\u00a0
You can\u2019t change someone else.\u00a0
It\u2019s already hard enough\u00a0
to do it for yourself.\u00a0
Changing someone else?\u00a0
Simply impossible.\u00a0
You can\u2019t change them\u00a0
or anything in them.\u00a0
Only they have that power.\u00a0
And yet – how often do we use our energy\u00a0
to make someone see,\u00a0
regret,\u00a0
learn,\u00a0
apologise?\u00a0
None of that ever happens.\u00a0
Will you keep shooting\u00a0
or blind yourself instead?\u00a0

To see is to give yourself a Choice.\u00a0
Do I accept it?
To see is also to give yourself a Choice
– that I don\u2019t want to see.

But then\u2026 you can\u2019t grow.\u00a0
You stay stuck at the level\u00a0
where you\u2019re already getting bored\u00a0
but you\u2019re afraid the light might wipe you out.\u00a0
The light will show you the way –\u00a0
how to go through it\u00a0
with eyes wide open.\u00a0
Phoenix.\u00a0
You\u2019re reborn every time\u00a0
you face your forgotten truth.\u00a0
Stronger.\u00a0
Braver.\u00a0

Is it easy to walk around for two days\u00a0
feeling like an orphan?\u00a0
If you\u2019ve just uncovered a buried truth\u00a0
and said goodbye to the mother\u00a0
you waited 30 years for\u00a0
in the hallway of your childhood home?\u00a0
No.\u00a0
Sometimes it\u2019s hard.\u00a0
But it didn\u2019t kill me.\u00a0
It gave me the strength\u00a0
to go get myself \u2014\u00a0
right there,\u00a0
in the depths of my old wounds.\u00a0

Why did I need to know?\u00a0
So I could finally stop\u00a0
waiting.\u00a0
Subconsciously, how many of us\u00a0
are still waiting\u00a0
for one of our Parents?\u00a0
So many.\u00a0
We walk around pretending to be adults\u00a0
while deep down\u00a0
we\u2019re just waiting\u00a0
for someone to finally hold us,\u00a0
for God\u2019s sake.\u00a0
But no one is coming.\u00a0
Uau.\u00a0
Now that\u2019s a discovery.\u00a0
And that happened to me\u2026?\u00a0
Yes.\u00a0
It did.\u00a0
I was speechless when I found out.\u00a0
How did I know?\u00a0
My tears ran like crazy.\u00a0
How could I take full responsibility\u00a0
for my life?\u00a0
How could I fully step into my life?\u00a0
– when my Inner Little Girl\u00a0
was still sobbing in that hallway…\u00a0

That\u2019s why I go inward.\u00a0
To get myself.\u00a0
Today \u2014 I go for me.\u00a0
And I come back stronger every time.\u00a0
Because each time,\u00a0
I\u2019m more whole.\u00a0
Each time,\u00a0
more complete.\u00a0
Is it easy to walk around for a week\u00a0
feeling like a lost child?\u00a0
No.\u00a0<\/strong>

But it\u2019s necessary –\u00a0
so I never again return\u00a0
to that same place.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s like those sad-angry love songs.\u00a0
\u201cYou f***ing b*tch, I\u2019m so over you,\u00a0
but pleeeeease come baaaack ou ou ou\u2026\u201d\u00a0
Has the songwriter really moved on?
Well\u2026 nope.\u00a0
If in your thoughts\u00a0
you still go back to something\u00a0
in pain or anger \u2014\u00a0
then it\u2019s not behind you.\u00a0
You\u2019re still dragging it along.\u00a0
And unless you sit with it –\u00a0
Alone.\u00a0
And feel it –\u00a0
It\u2019ll keep going until you die.\u00a0

So I ask again:\u00a0
Is it hard to face those emotions\u00a0
to say goodbye for good\u00a0
and move forward\u00a0
in greater lightness?\u00a0
A little bit, yes.\u00a0
But it\u2019s worth everything.\u00a0
Our freedom.\u00a0
Letting go.\u00a0
Space to finally breathe with ease\u2026\u00a0

All of it is worth the time\u00a0
to sort out our life\u00a0
and \u2026 live \ud83d\ude42<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"To see something means\u00a0you CAN do something about it.\u00a0You don\u2019t have to.\u00a0But seeing it at all\u00a0gives you the…\n","protected":false},"author":244696633,"featured_media":6964,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_crdt_document":"","advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"csco_display_header_overlay":false,"csco_disable_site_padding":false,"csco_singular_sidebar":"","csco_page_header_type":"","csco_page_load_nextpost":"","csco_post_video_location":[],"csco_post_video_location_hash":"","csco_post_video_url":"","csco_post_video_bg_start_time":0,"csco_post_video_bg_end_time":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1610,1931,1426],"tags":[1615,1612,1617,1618,1576,1725,2085,1574,1974,2088,2087],"class_list":{"0":"post-6978","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-emotions-signposts","8":"category-my-inner-child","9":"category-rozwoj-en","10":"tag-change-is-me","11":"tag-emotions-are-signposts","12":"tag-inspiration","13":"tag-life-is-beautiful","14":"tag-my-way","15":"tag-personal-growth","16":"tag-primary-wounds","17":"tag-self-awareness","18":"tag-the-power-is-within-you","19":"tag-the-primary-wound-of-the-father","20":"tag-the-primary-wound-of-the-mother","21":"cs-entry","22":"cs-video-wrap"},"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/sandrasinger.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/IMG_5673-rotated.jpeg?fit=3088%2C2316&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pfugTc-1Oy","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6978","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/244696633"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6978"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6978\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6983,"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6978\/revisions\/6983"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6964"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6978"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6978"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6978"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}