{"id":7547,"date":"2026-05-10T17:00:21","date_gmt":"2026-05-10T15:00:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/?p=7547"},"modified":"2026-05-10T17:01:35","modified_gmt":"2026-05-10T15:01:35","slug":"to-build-part-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/to-build-part-2","title":{"rendered":"To Build \u2013 Part 2"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>To Build<br>I need to look for words<br>that\u2026 build \ud83d\ude42<br>To name the things I want,<br>making them accessible to others.<br>If I want them to keep walking with me<br>on my journey.<br>I cannot keep spitting at someone over and over again\u00a0<br>and expect<br>that I will build something in respect.<br>Either we keep kicking at each other, complaining<br>and stay in it.<br>Or we stop, take inventory<br>and change.<br>That is also our choice.<br>Not \u201cbecause it just happened.\u201d<br>We are the ones making the decision<br>about what our life will look like from here.<br>I am the one making the decision<br>about what my life will look like from here.<br>To build, I need to look for<br>what connects us.<br>This is the harder path.<br>But worth everything.<br>Anyone can slam a door.<br>Anyone can scream anger out in anger too.\u00a0<br><br>But to find a shared path<br>is to reach for \u201cI want to.\u201d\u00a0<br><br>It is reaching new possibilities within yourself.<br>It is building your character from the inside out.<br>I choose what I want to build with.<br>You can force things to hold together.<br>But how long can that last?<br>I don\u2019t want to just endure anymore.<br>I want to live.<br>Not somewhere up in heaven.<br>Here on Earth.<br>Now, while I breathe.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"To BuildI need to look for wordsthat\u2026 build \ud83d\ude42To name the things I want,making them accessible to others.If&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":244696633,"featured_media":7542,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_wpcom_ai_launchpad_first_post":false,"csco_display_header_overlay":false,"csco_disable_site_padding":false,"csco_singular_sidebar":"","csco_page_header_type":"","csco_page_load_nextpost":"","csco_post_video_location":[],"csco_post_video_location_hash":"","csco_post_video_url":"","csco_post_video_bg_start_time":0,"csco_post_video_bg_end_time":0,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1610,1643,1584],"tags":[1615,1612,2040,2039,2036,2037,2038,1763,1617,2122,2159,2161,2160,2162,2201,1574,1856],"class_list":["post-7547","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-emotions-signposts","category-others-various","category-relation","tag-change-is-me","tag-emotions-are-signposts","tag-i-choose-light-or-darkness","tag-i-choose-my-behavior","tag-i-choose-my-emotions","tag-i-choose-my-interpretations","tag-i-choose-my-reactions","tag-i-create-my-life","tag-inspiration","tag-ja-i-ty","tag-ja-wybieram-moje-emocje","tag-ja-wybieram-moje-interpretacje","tag-ja-wybieram-moje-reakcje","tag-ja-wybieram-moje-zachowanie","tag-me-and-you","tag-self-awareness","tag-together-we-build-our-world","cs-entry","cs-video-wrap"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pfugTc-1XJ","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/sandrasinger.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/IMG_2185-rotated.jpeg?fit=4032%2C3024&ssl=1","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7547","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/244696633"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7547"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7547\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7554,"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7547\/revisions\/7554"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7542"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7547"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7547"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7547"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}