{"id":7745,"date":"2026-06-14T17:20:05","date_gmt":"2026-06-14T15:20:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/?p=7745"},"modified":"2026-06-14T17:20:52","modified_gmt":"2026-06-14T15:20:52","slug":"millions-of-nonsense-but-what-really-matters","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandrasinger.blog\/en\/millions-of-nonsense-but-what-really-matters","title":{"rendered":"Millions of Nonsense\u2026 But What Really Matters?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

What tone of voice I will have today
\u2026 with my husband and my little son.
How much of my kindness I will choose to use today.
For myself.
And for others.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Will I carry my pain, anger, and frustration further,
or will I go and scream it out in the garden today,
or by opening the windows somewhere between the bridges?
(Sorry, confused cyclists\u00a0\ud83d\ude01)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So that I can carry a smile forward.
A little more peace.
Maybe a little more disarming humor.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What will matter today
is what I share with my loved ones
\u2014 because that is what I feed them.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What will matter is how much
I show them that I love them
\u2014 through gestures, tenderness, presence,
and understanding – even if sometimes I experience things differently –
by allowing them to be themselves beside me,
and loving them exactly as they are.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even if sometimes I feel like biting them \ud83d\ude42
Don\u2019t worry\u2026 I\u2019ll go scream it out. <\/strong>\ud83d\udeb2\ud83d\ude02<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

These are not fairy tales.<\/strong>
This is self-management.<\/strong>

I process my emotions MYSELF
\u2014 I extract the ESSENCE \u2014 3 sentences.\u00a0\ud83d\ude4f
I say them and\u2026 I leave them there.
We give each other Time.
And Space.
We don’t have to agree on everything.
It is enough that we respect each other\u2019s individuality and differences.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because everyone here is learning how to be an adult,
and because of that, <\/strong>
our little son gets to be a child cared for by two adults.<\/strong>

We\u2019re trying.\u00a0\ud83d\udeb2\ud83d\ude02<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Highly recommended.\u00a0
It\u2019s worth it \ud83d\ude42\u00a0
For my own satisfaction.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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