To see something means
you CAN do something about it.
You don’t have to.
But seeing it at all
gives you the chance to choose.
To see is a higher level of Being.
Because it hurts.
You see
And someone else… doesn’t.
And there’s nothing you can do about it.
You can’t change someone else.
It’s already hard enough
to do it for yourself.
Changing someone else?
Simply impossible.
You can’t change them
or anything in them.
Only they have that power.
And yet – how often do we use our energy
to make someone see,
regret,
learn,
apologise?
None of that ever happens.
Will you keep shooting
or blind yourself instead?
To see is to give yourself a Choice.
Do I accept it?
To see is also to give yourself a Choice
– that I don’t want to see.
But then… you can’t grow.
You stay stuck at the level
where you’re already getting bored
but you’re afraid the light might wipe you out.
The light will show you the way –
how to go through it
with eyes wide open.
Phoenix.
You’re reborn every time
you face your forgotten truth.
Stronger.
Braver.
Is it easy to walk around for two days
feeling like an orphan?
If you’ve just uncovered a buried truth
and said goodbye to the mother
you waited 30 years for
in the hallway of your childhood home?
No.
Sometimes it’s hard.
But it didn’t kill me.
It gave me the strength
to go get myself —
right there,
in the depths of my old wounds.
Why did I need to know?
So I could finally stop
waiting.
Subconsciously, how many of us
are still waiting
for one of our Parents?
So many.
We walk around pretending to be adults
while deep down
we’re just waiting
for someone to finally hold us,
for God’s sake.
But no one is coming.
Uau.
Now that’s a discovery.
And that happened to me…?
Yes.
It did.
I was speechless when I found out.
How did I know?
My tears ran like crazy.
How could I take full responsibility
for my life?
How could I fully step into my life?
– when my Inner Little Girl
was still sobbing in that hallway…
That’s why I go inward.
To get myself.
Today — I go for me.
And I come back stronger every time.
Because each time,
I’m more whole.
Each time,
more complete.
Is it easy to walk around for a week
feeling like a lost child?
No.
But it’s necessary –
so I never again return
to that same place.
It’s like those sad-angry love songs.
“You f***ing b*tch, I’m so over you,
but pleeeeease come baaaack ou ou ou…”
Has the songwriter really moved on?
Well… nope.
If in your thoughts
you still go back to something
in pain or anger —
then it’s not behind you.
You’re still dragging it along.
And unless you sit with it –
Alone.
And feel it –
It’ll keep going until you die.
So I ask again:
Is it hard to face those emotions
to say goodbye for good
and move forward
in greater lightness?
A little bit, yes.
But it’s worth everything.
Our freedom.
Letting go.
Space to finally breathe with ease…
All of it is worth the time
to sort out our life
and … live 🙂
